Children need your love and attention, not your money

“Children need your love and attention, not your money.”

This morning I received five to seven messages asking for permission to speak for five minutes. Yes, you can talk. I wrote in reply. (There was a call from a young father who had three sessions five months ago)


My world has changed, now I have less anger and my ability to work has increased.
Sir, write all my sessions. Let all men know how to pay for the rights of children.
There were sessions with this young man. In the first session, he brought his daughter with him. He said that “The girl remains scared. She also speaks less and has reduced her food.”
The little girl was physically fit. Talking about the young man’s married life and office matters, the young man said that he is getting very irritable, he gets angry a lot, he also fights with his wife. I heard the young man in two sessions and knew the real thing. I felt useless to explain it. I called him for the third session.
The young man had arrived on time for the third session, and I was sitting in the car watching him. I deliberately reached the hospital late after getting out of my car.  Anger was visible on the young man’s face. But he was quiet. I asked him Are you angry?
 Did you expect me to arrive on time as usual?
Yes, the young men said.
Friend It hurts when hopes are dashed.
I would like to do a play with you in which I will become your daughter and express her feelings
Little fairy: Baba will come home today, he will bring me, sweets, I will run and climb on his lap
I have started.
Young man: Let’s go back. I’m very tired. Where is your mama?
The young man said in a muffled tone.
Little fairy: Baba, I have been waiting for you all day today.
Young men: Hey, where are you? Give me some water and hold her.
Little fairy: Baba, I’m not bothering, I’m just watching you.
Young men: Take this girl. I want to rest.
Baba: I have been waiting all day for you, I am waiting for you more than candies. Mama also slapped me today and you too … I love you baba more than everything.
The young man got up crying and hugged me. To this day I have never thought about what children think.
“Children need your love and attention, not your money.”

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